Wednesday, December 30, 2009
I'm rich!!
I am literally cracking myself up tonight because I was checking my bank account online today and thinking to myself, "You are broke, girl, totally, totally broke!" But I feel so RICH!!! I look around me and I can't help but shake my head and praise God. I'm not rich; I'm blessed! So blessed. I don't feel poor at all even though my banker would probably advise me to get another job. :) A few months ago, I signed up at mint.com. It's a great website. One of the figures it gives is a person's net worth. I remember looking at that and thinking, "I cannot believe that's my net worth. I don't feel that poor at all."
We are so rich and blessed in America and I think that the majority of us don't even realize it!! Have you looked around at your life and started laughing in wonderment at how blessed you really are? Just take a moment and look around your apartment, bedroom, or house and realize how much we have. We're so rich!! Ever since my brother has been back from Africa, he's made several comments about how blessed we are. He and I went to the grocery store last night to pick up a few last minute items for our New Year's Eve party tomorrow night. He was shaking his head as we were walking out the door. He just kept saying, "We are so blessed. We are so blessed."
Do you really, I mean really thank God for your food. No. Stop. I mean actually say and mean it in a heartfelt way. Thank you SO MUCH, Lord, for this delicious and wonderful food. Or is it just a habitual routine? We're so rich and blessed and wealthy in America.
God's AMAZING grace!
Of course, one thing that was mentioned was our salvation.
But, the teacher pointed out something so interesting to me. I have heard it stated this way before but it completely overwhelmed me. In John 1:11 it says, "He came unto his own, and his own received him not." Verse 12 goes on to say: "But as many as received him to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name." THEN, tonight in my Bible reading, I came across this verse in Matthew 12:21: And in his name shall the Gentiles trust.
Let me try to explain the best way that I can remember. Jesus came to save His people {the Jews} but they "received him not." So basically, if we're a Gentile, PRAISE GOD FOR SALVATION. If you let that thought sink into you, you can't help but raise your hands in praise!! I feel so overwhelmed with this thought.
What made me think about this tonight is that it is so noticeable who is a Jew. Not only by their looks but by their family heritage. My Dad shops for his suits, shirts, etc...at a well-known men's clothing store in our area and the owner is a Jew. Very wealthy, I might add. Anyways, today when my Dad went in there, he was talking to the grandson. The grandson was telling my Dad about a conversation he had had with a co-worker about the current fight over in Israel over the land. This guy who is unsaved but is a Jew knew that the land is the Israelis because of the promise to Moses. Interesting!
I mentioned to my parents, "Isn't it so interesting how Jews know their family history?" Most people in America do not know their family history. I feel like our family {paternal side} is much more knowledgeable simply because our ancestors immigrated in the early 1900's which wasn't terribly long ago. But to know that you're a Jew because your family history has been passed down through the centuries is absolutely incredible!!
Anyways, just wanted to share this thought with you.
Praise God for AMAZING grace! Truly.
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Reason #4...
Less humidity.
Hair stays straighter for a greater amount of time.
Actually, it looks better at the end of the day.
Monday, December 28, 2009
boots, boots, and more boots
I was a girl with a mission today. Mission: find a pair of boots. Last year, I purchased my high-heels, black, DRESSY, WINTER boots. This year, I needed to purchase a pair of everyday boots. I found some at different big-box retailers in the town south of us. But none that would really work for me. So I decided to head to the downtown area. I am all about helping out the small business. Completely. I hate to see empty towns and the little I can do to prevent that is to spend my money there.
So I headed into a shoe store that was downtown. It was a very interesting experience, TO SAY THE LEAST. But I did walk away with a pair of black boots and a pair of {free} brown boots. Wow!! He threw in a discount coupon for next time and referral coupons with discounts for others. I will not discuss on this blog how much they cost. My Mom made me feel better by reassuring me that they were an investment because they will last for many, many years. Investment is the right word. For others, it may not have been an investment but for me it was.
I recovered from the sticker shock, though, after walking around in them all afternoon. I have one pair of footless tights. I'm such a southern girl that I greatly enjoy walking around barefoot. These boots ensure that luxury. They are the warmest boots, by far, that I have ever possessed in my entire life. I am looking forward to winter all of a sudden. :)
What is your boot story? Do you have a pair that you particularly love? Can't find the perfect pair? Suffer through winter dressed in your cutesy shoes? I'm so curious!
I am the pickiest person alive when it comes to {especially} boots + shoes.
Thursday, December 24, 2009
get.out.of.HERE.!!
So, I'm bumping around there today and found a neat feature called "pounce." Basically, you choose to pounce on an undiscovered shop {has yet to make its first sale} or a shop with a recent sale. I was pouncing around and found a cute shop.
In this shop, she mentioned that the fabric was designed by her and printed by spoonflower. I google spoonflower. And I just have to share. You should get over there and check it out. Here's the link: http://www.spoonflower.com/welcome
If you're interested in "pouncing" on etsy click here: http://www.etsy.com/buy.php
So...I can design my own fabric and I can get it printed? Just little 'ole non-important-don't-own-a-business me. Un.be.lievable. I still have to finish my quilt but come on, people, this is revolutionary!
Merry Christmas Eve to you, too!
We just got back from an overnight stay in Chicago. It was a nice change of pace. No pics, unfortunately. We stayed in a hotel on Michigan Ave. {Thanks, Tr*velocity!}
We ate a lot of food! First of all, we met a pastor who has been sent out of our church and started a church in downtown Chicago about two years ago. Actually, he's in the neighborhood where our President is from. Um, yah...a very liberal neighborhood. About the food. I'm not a huge meat eater but I ordered a patty melt. Woah, buddy! Del-i-cio!! I ate the entire thing.
Second place that we ate was at a steakhouse. I had salmon because I don't treasure steak like I treasure seafood. Yes, I'm weird. It was good.
This morning. Coffee and scone from a coffee stand in a mall.
This afternoon. Pizza from our favorite joint. But I was/am not feeling well so I didn't eat very much. Bummer!
Let me tell you about last night. First of all, I couldn't fall asleep because of an extremely sore throat. Then, as I was drifting off to sleep, loud noises from the hallway kept interrupting my sleep. At 12:30am, I woke up because of some very loud people. Bummer! Then, I woke up a few other times during the night. That's very odd because I claim to be a heavy sleeper and the bed was very comfortable. Oh well. I guess I'll sleep good tonight! {Jen, your post cracked me up. I wouldn't know how to deal with it either. Maybe sleep with your ipod on?? But you would still here banging pots and pans and you couldn't call security like I did last night!!}
It's been raining here today and now the temperature is dropping. Everything is turning to ice. We SLID down our driveway, coming pretty close to hitting the two cars parked at the bottom of the driveway. We may be walking to church tonight. Ha!
I hope you're night is merry + bright. Mine will be. I love going to church on Christmas Eve.
xx hugs + love xx
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
[drumroll, please...........]
bugs die.
I went out to dinner with a friend on Sunday night who recently moved to FL to go to school. She was telling us about the hugest cockroaches ever that are down there. While I would love, love, love to live in the deep South, I am reminded of a blessing of the North. Large bugs die due to the cold temperatures. Amen.
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
o happy day!
#1 - I woke up to snow gently falling.
#2 - I woke up knowing I completed a lot before I went to bed last night.
#3 - The peeps that I cleaned for today gave me a Christmas bonus + + + she bought me something from an etsy shop that I hearted. Absolutely, one of the most thoughtful gifts I have ever received. It may seem like a small gesture but it meant the world to me.
#4 - My Granny has made us laugh today. {I have to write this down for posterity.} Here's the story:
She had an appointment at the doctor today. Doctor's appts. make her perk up in a very unusual way. Our doctor has been our doc since before I was born; he graduated from the med school where my dad works; and he is a very serious man. Another pre-note to the story, she tells my Mom and I frequently, "You are the prettiest and the sweetest thing that ever walked" or something in that variation. So today, she says to the doctor, "Did you know you are the most beautiful doctor?" My Mom said he turned beet red and they were laughing so hard. The other funny thing she said to him today was, "I bet you didn't think you were gonna get to see me today." Hil-a-rio!! Even though there have been many rough patches with her due to her dementia, we wouldn't trade the last 4 1/2 years with her living up here with us in IN. There have been so many memories!
#5 - {I'm putting this up for my own motivation.} Today is going to end as an extremely happy day because all my gifts will be wrapped and put under the tree before I go to bed. :) How's that?!!
Merry, merry, happy Christmas!
Monday, December 21, 2009
fall goals, recap
finish reading the Bible through
Bible songs flip chart
start quilt
mission, in progress:
start quilt
organize idea notebook
finish course ONE of indexing course
I put "start quilt" under both catergories because I did start it; I washed and dried the material. :) But that's barely started. I'm glad that's at least done but I was hoping to piece the quilt.
The idea notebook is continually on my goals list because it is totally a work in progress. Have I explained what my idea notebook is? Basically, I collect magazines and after I'm tired of looking through them, I dissect them. {Side note: you would not believe how many ads are in one magazine.} I cut/rip out any recipes, decorating ideas, how-to's, etc...and put them in a big, fat notebook that I have. My current challenge is deciding how I want the notebook organized. That's the beast. By month? By topic? By column? The whole idea of the notebook is so I have a place to put articles and recipes as I encounter them through magazines, the newspaper, and the web.
Lastly, the indexing course has fallen by the wayside due to the successes I have seen in my etsy store. I would still like to develop the indexing career. However, I was completely intimidated and disenchanted when I went to the indexing conference at the beginning of November. Totally. But that doesn't mean I don't want to pursue it in the long run.
Winter goals:
~idea notebook~
~quilt~
~handmade gifts inventory~
~read Wives and Daughters~
~Scripture memorization~
~read the New Testament~
endless gifts {166-176}
166. snow
167. my parents
168. Christmas cards from friends ::thanks, Jen::
169. an old friend texting me out of the blue
170. another old friend calling me out of the blue
171. provision for my needs
172. prompting of the Holy Spirit
173. ability to serve HIM
174. being illness-free
175. my sweet, little, Southern Granny that lives up here with us
176. warm scarves
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Simple Woman's Daybook
DECEMBER 17TH '09
Outside my window...gray skies, bare trees
I am thinking...about snippets of a message I heard on the radio as I was pulling into the driveway. Can't wait to download the sermon to my ipod.
I am thankful for...my family
From the kitchen...would really like to make either a chocolate cake or chocolate cupcakes with peppermint frosting
I am wearing...jean skirt, brown elbow-length shirt, cream scarf
I am creating...verse memory cards, Christmas gifts
I am going...to our church's Christmas Banquet tonight
I am reading...Lines of a Layman by JC Penney
I am hoping...for snow
I am hearing...a Christmas CD playing and the refrigerator humming
Around the house...evidence of Christmas is everywhere
One of my favorite things...scarves
A few plans for the rest of the week: finish Christmas gifts, get everything wrapped and mailed, wedding tomorrow night, normal weekend
Here is a picture thought I am sharing:
my cousin's fiancee - Janelle - I heart her!!
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Because...
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
awesome,
blessed
BUSY!!
Last night, I signed up for a free trial of an online marketing tool.
The results have been nothing short of AMAZING!
Well, I get amazed at pretty much anything so maybe that's not saying much.
But, I got an order of several sets of cards + just the fact that some of my friends forwarded their email to others who I never would have reached.
Would you like to be on my contact list?
Click to subscribe on the right.
And, NO, this blog will not be a constant stream of posts regarding my etsy shop. It's ok when people use their crafting blogs to make a little money {that's all good and fine}. But sometimes, the entire tone of their blog changes to make $$. I become disinterested.
Anyways, if I'm not peeking my head up here every once in a while, please know that I am buried beneath paper, scissors, glue, and laminate.
Now for tonight, I am off for our church's Christmas concert. Double yay!!!
Monday, December 14, 2009
my endless gifts {156-165}
156. a friend who tells me what I need {not necessarily want} to hear
157. "accidentally" getting the oil changed a week early resulted in preventing a problem that would have caused a break-down
158. provision every.single.week.!!
159. learning more about Christ
160. once again, another opportunity to share a past experience/trial to encourage another
161. Christmas caroling
162. Christmas music
163. the Hallelujah Chorus
164. a good talk with my grandma
165. cousins!!
Sunday, December 13, 2009
broken and spilled out
Others it's frustrating.
While still others, it's heart-breaking.
Today it was heart-breaking.
Recently, I was transferred to the 4-year olds Junior Church #2 class. One word: challenging. Some of the kids are super good. I think it's partly their personality because in public schools these days, I don't think kids are expected to sit still for an extended amount of time. And then there are the chosen few who are a weekly challenge. I remind myself that these challenging children have backgrounds. I made a point about a month ago to ask one of the bus captains about a few of Jr. Church kids who ride her bus. What I found out broke my heart. It gives me much more understanding and a much larger degree of patience when dealing with kids if I understand what their week is like.
Today, I was walking sweet and naughty little B down the hallway. It was a break for her {maybe she would attempt to listen after some exercise}. As I was walking down the hallway, I saw one of the kids off my bus outside of his class. He had been out of seat, etc..and broke something {that was kinda valuable - ie - an electric piano...cringe} in the classroom. Yes, this kid can be a challenge. Y.E.S.!! But what it has taken for him to be allowed to come to church {he has wanted to come for a few years now} and the home he comes from and his cute little cross-eyes totally broke my heart. I literally had to walk away because I was choking up. His home is not the best one. Sure, his mom loves him but it's rough from a Christian, Biblical standpoint.
As I was driving shuttle this afternoon, my thought processes turned into a post and "broken and spilled out" became the title. I hope my life is broken and spilled out for Jesus Christ. I want to give my all for Him. I want to be a channel of His love to these hopeless kids. I want to show them that SOMEONE does love and care for them. My dad often reminds us that we are just workers in His vineyard. We're just called to work and He produces the results.
I live for the Sundays when it is exhilarating.
I'm glad when a Sunday is over and it has been frustrating.
I'm so thankful for the Sundays when I am heart broken. It reminds me of why I need to be broken and spilled out.
Friday, December 11, 2009
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Because...
#1 - beautiful sunshine {Isn't it true that the earth is closer to the sun during the winter? Today, it is frigid, and I am not saying that lightly, but the sun is shining. And it is always so beautiful in the winter.}
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
I don't know why I feel the need to justify myself
This same mentality comes to driving in the winter. I just canceled my cello lesson tonight because I didn't want to drive in sleet-snow-slush-rain-ice. Am I wimp? Ha!
And I didn't want to drive in the sleet-snow-slush-rain-ice even though I was driving our huge Suburban with big rims. I love our truck and I feel safe driving it but I'm too afraid of crashing the baby. :) The new Suburbans have plastic {yes, you read that right - plastic} bumpers. Soon after we got the '08 Suburban, my Mom accidentally bumped {barely} a truck behind her and you would not believe the damage done to the bumper. We also have an '01 Suburban. Once, my brother bumped his friends car in a parking lot at work. Not one scratch on our truck and the other guys' car was severely damaged.
Potentially losing control on an icy road at night equals $$. So, I'm staying home.
I have about gazillion cookies to make. Here's my list: cookies for tomorrow nights choir/orchestra practice for our Christmas concert, cookies for prisoners {something through our church}, and cookies as gifts.
So although I feel like such a skirt cancelling my cello lessons, I'm glad because I have extra time to make these cookies.
Is it snowing in your locale? I hope it is!
Monday, December 7, 2009
our tree {for your amusement}
Friday, December 4, 2009
my Friday!
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Simple Woman's Daybook
Outside my window...gray skies, no sun
I am thinking...about all the Christmas gifts I need to get together
I am thankful for...my Mom's health
I am wearing...my favorite cullottes and my favorite zip-up sweatshirt {'bout to get ready for work}
I am creating...actually nothing right now...I'm waiting for my crewel thread to get here
I am going...to work and then with my mom to Chicago for her appointment
I am currently reading...through Revelation and any catalogs that happen to come in the mail {hello, Christmas!}
I am hoping...we get snow soon
A few plans for the rest of the week...two jobs tomorrow {blessed}, then to Chicago with friends; normal weekend
From my picture journal
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Since I didn't want to leave a post filled with my grumbles, I thought I'd tell my paternal family history in a nutshell. I promised a few posts ago that I would tell you our story. Here it goes!
{Before I start, please remember that this is oral history.}
In the 1400's, Catherine the Great {a German} married a Russian king. The Russians needed help farming so an offer was made to the Germans. This offer included free land and no taxes for a certain number of years as long as they taught the Russians how to farm. These Germans settled along the Volga River. My ancestors were in this group of people. We refer to them as the Volga River Germans.
Fast forward to the early 1900's. My great grandparents came from Russia to America. They were trying to escape the C*mmun*sm there. All of my great grandparents came to America through different avenues. Some came by boat {through Boston...inside joke} while others escaped with barely their lives. Somehow, they ended up in the Flint area. Of course, GM was booming at the time. Many, many, many of my family members have worked at GM. Also, they were not Christians before they came to America. A sponsor for one of the family members was a Christian and led them to the Lord. Through this Christian testimony, family members were saved. This was the beginning of my godly heritage!
As the Germans in the Flint area were saved, they banded together and formed a church but not under a denomination. They called it the "Brotherhood." Both of my grandparents grew up in the Brotherhood. My dad also went to the Brotherhood meetings as a child with his maternal grandparents. The Brotherhood sounds like it was very fundamental and based soley on the Bible. They were kept very busy. This is an example schedule: Sunday - church all day; Monday - soulwinning; Tuesday - youth group; Wednesday - prayer meeting; Thursday - band practice, etc...My Nana {maternal great-grandmother} was chided as a child for rollerskating because it was seen as a worldly activity. That's just a small example of how they eschewed the world.
My Oma was an only child and her mother {Nana} was an only child but my Oma had a lot of cousins from her dad's side {we called him Pa}. When my Oma was older, her cousins formed "Cousins Club." I had the privilege of attending a Cousins Club. What fun! So many funny stories from the Brotherhood were told with German words and phrases sprinkled in and lots of laughter, of course!
This past Thanksgiving, I was thinking a lot about my heritage. My great-grandparents {both sets} were very godly people.
My dad's maternal great-grandparents: We refer to them as Mumma and Bobba. They left a huge impression on my dad. Bobba read the Bible at each meal {reminds me of Ann V.}. The memories my Dad has shared with us give me the impression that Mumma and Bobba lived very simple lives. They were so thankful to live in America plus be Christians. I aspire to be like them in their simplicity and deep love for the Word. My Oma was greatly influenced by Mumma and Bobba, as well. She grew up speaking German because she spent so much time at their house.
My dad's maternal grandparents: Since my dad was the first and only grandchild, he spent a lot of time with his maternal grandparents {Nana and Pa}. I believe they had a huge impression on my dad; he is very much like Pa. And he traveled with them a lot in the summers as they went to Brotherhood meetings in the Midwest.
My dad's paternal grandparents: We refer to them as Grandpa and Grandma Gaus {rhymes with house}. They had seven children. Grandpa was an evangelist and traveled the U.S. preaching in other Brotherhood meetings. They started a yearly tradition of having a Gaus Christmas party. That side of the family is a loud, crazy, happy family. As each branch of the family grows, I can sense new "trees" being formed. For instance, none of my grandpa's family will be at the Christmas party this year because my cousin is getting married down South. The core of the family lives in MI. Because we've always lived in IN, I have always felt like an out-sider to the real happenings of the family. As years pass, more and more are beginning to move away from MI.
I think I'm typing this out more for my remembrance than for your information! :) As I re-read this, there are so many untold stories peeking from between the lines! Someday...someday....!
I'm so blessed to come from a Christian family. Everyone is saved {or claims to be} except for a few second/third cousins who have married Catholics {horrible choice!}. I hope I never forget who my great-grandparents were. I hope and pray that I carry on the tradition that has been set before me.
"The lines are fallen unto me in pleasant places; yea, I have a goodly heritage." Psalm 16:6
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
prayer request!
But due to the intense amount of radiation she received while undergoing treatment for her leukemia, she is/was considered high-risk for skin cancer. They're just being cautious in having this mole removed.
I'm sure it's nothing but I'm sure you understand that I would appreciate your prayers! Yay for friends!
This December 7th will be Praise Day again! It will be eleven years since her initial diagnosis. GOD IS SO GOOD to our family. I am so blessed to have my mom here with me. A lady in our church passed away this year from cancer and she has daughters just a bit younger than me. I cannot imagine not being able to pick up the phone and talk to my Mom whenever I want. I am so grateful for the daily blessing of the presence of my Mom in our house!
Monday, November 30, 2009
endless gifts {138-155}
138. family
139. Ann V....love her blog....I am continually challenged...anyone else read her?
140. joy
141. health
142. happiness
143. people who make me smile
144. a favorite book
145. daily needs always met
146. my daily bread
147. my godly heritage {I'll have to tell my family history sometime.}
148. the Christmas season
149. smell of a fresh Christmas tree
150. my youngest brother
151. a reminder of the need for His strength {I always need to be reminded!}
152. crafting blogs that I stumble upon
153. a day out in the country
154. seeing other peers who are sold-out, serving, faithful, and committed....awesome!
155. I'm grateful to be blessed!
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Psalm 66:10-12I was having a discussion with my cousin on Friday night and we were talking about trials. So often, we as Christians, do not want to accept the trials God puts us through. Really, how many of us are jumping up and down shouting, "Over here! I want a trial, please! It's about time I had something difficult come into my life. Life has been way too easy for me these days." Ummmm......no. But it's through the trials that we draw closer to Him. We were created to have fellowship with the Father. If He takes us through a fiery season and it draws us closer to Him, then what better thing could we ask for?
For thou, O God, hast proved us: thou hast tried us, as silver is tried.
Thou broughtest us into the net; thou laidst affliction upon our loins.
Thou hast caused men to ride over our heads; we went through fire and through water; but thou broughtest us out into a wealthy place.
And the most interesting thing I noticed about these verses is that the Psalmist is referencing God. He noticed that God brought "us into the net" and God "caused men to ride over our heads." I love the clear visual picture I get in that passage. Ouch! :)
And the passage that I quoted ends with "but thou hast brought us out into a wealthy place." Incredible!
On the way home from MI tonight, I was flipping through my uber-favorite book Did I Kiss Marriage Goodbye? In the chapter I was reading, the author referenced the story of Ruth.
Here are two thoughts I have highlighted:
He works on a scale much larger than our individual lives.It's an encouragement to be reminded of the bigger picture. It is easy to get hung up on the little things that don't happen according to the plan. But each trial is God's hand at work to perfect me beyond what I can fathom!
and
God's quiet providence was already at hand, but Naomi couldn't perceive it.
how was your Thanksgiving holiday?
left-right: me, John {cousin}, Janelle {soon-to-be cousin}, and Sara {cousin}
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
::my words::part two::
I have this verse jotted on a card and tacked to my cork board. It says, "Only let your conversation be as it becometh the gospel of Christ..." Philippians 1:27. If we were to apply that verse to every conversation we had {best friend, boyfriend, brother, sister, parents, husband} plus applying all the other verses on the tongue that teach us not to slander, gossip, etc...what would we talk about? Really. What would our conversations be filled with?
I don't know how super-duper open I've been about this on my blog, but I don't really have a best, best, best-ever girlfriend. The kind I can chat with for an hour, pick up the phone and decide to go somewhere instanteously or share my heart with. And I really, really miss having one. My best friend and I from hs have gone different directions. Of course, she's still a Christian but we just have completely different life paths, different friends, different locations. So many friends from college I have lost contact with. Many have gotten married {different goals!}. Some just don't "do" long-distance friendships. And, we change. I'm not sitting here bemoaning this fact. I have friends...I do...but not a "heart" friend. And I miss that so much. But I know not having a "heart/soul friend" is God's way of teaching me some things. Among the lessons I have been learning is what I say with my tongue. I have come to the realization that I talk too much. **shocker, I know!** Girls definitely have the gift of gab! :) But if my conversation is to be centered around the gospel of Christ, that limits a lot of unneccessary talk that girls do and which often leads to gossip and slander. I'm not saying it's wrong to talk about nail polish, facials, make-up, shopping, and sales but I don't think that's the *only* thing that we talk about.
If our conversation is centered around the gospel of Christ then I think we'll do a lot more talking about Scripture, souls, missions, ministries, how to be a blessing, etc.
All this to say, that "Death and life are in the power of the tongue." {Proverbs 18:21} I am praying that my tongue is not death, but life!
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
::my words::part one::
While popping around on Tuesday afternoon, I saw a link to this article. Intrigued, I clicked. Ironically, on Monday, my mom and I were having a conversation centered around the topic of the internet and privacy and filtering {filters, really} and social networking.
First of all, the written word {ie...my blog}.
I agree with everything in the article that I linked to.
I have thought much on the topic of how much is too much? It seems like everyone has fb! Well, except me! And I would *love* to connect with people from the past, especially friends from college, through that handy website. I feel like I don't know half of what is going on in other peoples' lives because I don't keep up with them through fb. On the other hand, so many that I have known {hs or college} have strayed from the standards and convictions that they used to hold dear...or at least I thought they did! However, I already have a blog. That is time-consuming. As much as I would love to connect with people through fb, I do enough connecting through my blog.
Twitter. Oh, twitter, how I do miss thee! I loved having a twitter. But how much is too much? I already have a blog!
If we're not supposed to be entangled with the affairs of this life {II Timothy 2:4} how much is too much? I am of the opinion that it is a personal issue, as well. What is good for you may not be good for me and vice versa. I don't think anyone is wrong for having a blog + fb + twitter + whatever else is out there. I don't even think it would be wrong for me to have a fb or twitter. But if I find myself spending enough time on my blog {and bloglines!} then why do I need to have a fb or twitter? I think it really boils down to time spent. I can check my email, google reader, bloglines, and whatever else and be done online within 20 minutes in the morning, give or take. It's really a matter of self-control.
I was convicted reading the second main point in the article. I hope that everything that is said on this blog is not self-centered and is pleasing to the Lord. That article was such a blessing!
Here's an honest, not misleading, question. Have you given much thought to social networking? What are your thoughts on how much is too much? I am so curious to know if you ever feel overwhelmed or overloaded? Have you deleted accounts because you feel like it's too much? How do you streamline your internet time? I'm truly curious in an honest way on your thoughts!
Monday night wrap-up
- went to Target for the first time in probably two whole, entire weeks {unbelievable}
- As I'm walking in, head down, minding my own business, a guy walking out greets me with a "Merry Christmas"...completely caught me by suprise, I flashed a smile and said, "Same to you!" Wow! Some sure are jolly.
- I had my coupon envelope - yay! I saved $2.75 + I had a $5-off card.
- Found a cute hobo purse. I've been searching for the perfect purse...and this one is almost perfect...perfect enough. The reason I needed a new purse is because the purse I'm currently using is f-r-a-y-e-d. My dad brought back a purse each for me and my mom when he went to Cambodia several years ago. I love this purse. It's different, colorful, and the perfect size. Recent problems include the zipper breaking {that's embarrassing because then everyone can see inside}, fraying on the handles and in other random places. Needless to say, it was time for a new purse.
- Went to be with my grandma.
- Timed conveniently so that I watched the final episode of J&K+8. I almost cried at the end. That is so incredibly sad that a cute, adorable, "Christian" family has broken up.
- My new favorite show on T-L-C is the D*gg*r family. Love them!! And they're Baptist! Woo-hoo!
blessings + hugs to everyone!
Monday, November 23, 2009
endless gifts {127-137}
127. that my Mom wasn't able to get the H1N1 from her onc. doc right away because she isn't high risk anymore!
128. our family's health...no H1N1, other flu strains, or nasty colds
129. a Sunday school lesson on thankfulness
130. being able to serve in my church
131. patience
132. steadfast members in my church that I look up to
133. anticipation of a {short, day} trip on Tuesday
134. provision for my needs
135. gorgeous, November weather
136. forgiveness
137. redemption
Friday, November 20, 2009
cleaning can be so uncool sometimes
This is an "only-happens-to-Rebecca" story.
Let me insert a preface here and say that the longer I clean houses where pets are occupants, the less chance any future children of mine have for owning a pet. The chances decrease greatly by the week!
I honestly can be a complete klutz. Completely. Hard to believe? So true.
At this particular house, I clean the dog and cat bowls each week {which is a very good idea}.
First of all, the dog decided not to come out of her cage this morning so I couldn't completely finish the {narrow} porch and added to the slight mayhem I'm about to decribe.
This next scene that I'm about to describe happened in seconds, really.
As I'm putting the cat dish/tray on the built-in radiator/heater, it begins to fall. I start to catch it as it is falling and end up with cat litter in my fingernails - double ewwww! As I catch the falling dish/tray, I stumble over I-don't-know-what and somehow flick my shoe off. My shoe flicking off turns into completely coming off my foot and flying in the air and into the bucket of yucky water. As I'm reaching to catch my shoe, my unsuccessful attempts to stop the shoe from being immersed in water make my shoe become completely submerged in water. Oh.my.goodness.!!!
I was fit to be tied!
Double-double-double-GROSS!!
First phrase that pops into my mind, "Cleaning can be so uncool sometimes."
I had to laugh, though, because it truly was an only-happens-to-Rebecca type of experience!
Thursday, November 19, 2009
the simple woman's daybook
November 19th...
Outside my window...gray skies, beautiful leaves on one tree that still have not fallen, looks like winter
I am thinking...about my younger {not youngest} brother
I am thankful for...my Ipod
From the kitchen...planning Thanksgiving dinner {I'm doing Thanksgiving this year...yay....yikes!}
I am wearing...jean skirt and 10//2 shirt
I am creating...Bible verse songs flip-chart today!
I am going...to see my Granny this morning and run a few errands
I am reading...through Ezekiel
I am hoping...to go to my cousin's wedding shower in MI next week
I am hearing...my radio, the doorbell ring
Around the house...construction is still going on in the bathroom and living room.
One of my favorite things...my morning coffee routine
A few plans for the rest of the week: work tomorrow, then a typical weekend
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
quick chicken and dumplings
This week was the first time that I made the recipe. For the other 101 x's we have had it at our house, my Mom always makes it. I did not want to mess up the goodness by making it myself. However, it worked out real well that I was able to make it this week and I learned a little about the recipe.
{our variations included}
4 cups water {chicken broth}
3 cups chopped cooked chicken
2 (10 3/4 oz) cans cream of chicken soup, undiluted
2 teaspoons chicken bouillon granules
1 teaspoon seasoned pepper
1 (7.5 oz) can refrigerated buttermilk biscuits {7.5 oz or larger}
*Bring first 5 ingredients to a boil in a Dutch oven over medium-high heat, stirring often.
*Separate biscuits in half, forming 2 rounds; cut each round in half. Drop biscuit pieces, 1 at a time, into boiling mixture; stir gently. Cover, reduce heat to low, and simmer, stirring occasionally, 15 to 20 minutes.
Yield: 4 to 6 servings
So here is what I learned:
When I put the chicken broth and soup in the pot, the liquid level seemed lower than when my Mom makes it. So I added more water. I think I put about 2+ cups of water in. It did not alter the taste at all, but the broth was thinner {more like a soup} instead of thick like you would think of with dumplings. So if/when I make this again, I would probably add more water but would definitely add another can of soup.
{Thanks, Abbi, for doing the ice-cream cake post! It reminded me to post this recipe!}
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Anyways, I just wanted to share some {what I call} "cause and effect" verses.
It is a faithful saying:
{Here's the clincher for me.}
If we believe not,
Monday, November 16, 2009
100 things
- I am the oldest in my family.
- I am the oldest grandchild on both sides of my family.
- I have always wanted an older brother, a sister close to my age, and a baby sister.
- I am slightly OCD about certain things.
- My favorite color is yellow!
- I had two sets of braces growing up.
- I think that good quality and fewer things (possessions) is better than poorer quality and more things.
- I am unabashed lover and addict of sweet tea.
- I love birds.
- I would love to travel the U.S.
- I love the deep South.
- I love the midwest.
- My family members are my closest friends.
- I miss my best friend from HS, Becky.
- People who don't know me think that I am quieter, proper, and reserved (more like my Oma).
- People who really know me know that I can be super-talkative and slightly crazy (ie excitable) (more like my Granny).
- I think my personality is a great blend of both of my grandma's.
- I miss my brother (one year younger than me) a lot!
- I took piano lessons for 12 years.
- But that doesn't necessarily mean that I'm great at the piano.
- I played the flute for 14 years.
- But that doesn't necessarily mean that I'm great at playing the flute.
- I love to sing harmony.
- My favorite month is October.
- My favorite season is summer.
- I love to ski.
- I'm growing my hair out.
- That is different because normally I have short hair.
- I used to sleep with my contacts in my eyes.
- In college, sometimes I would be so tired after church from my busy weekend that I would come home and lay on my bed to "think." Before I knew it, I had fallen asleep in my church clothes & with my shoes on + the lights on in my bedroom. I would wake up either very early the next morning or during the middle of the night.
- I have always loved to do laundry.
- I dislike cleaning showers but don't mind cleaning toilets so much.
- When I was younger, I read too much.
- I still love to read but don't read as much as I used to.
- My favorite time era is the 40's, 50's, and 60's.
- My favorite series to read growing up was Cherry Ames. She was a nurse in the 40's & World War II.
- I wanted to be a nurse at one time.
- I went to school to start my nursing degree.
- Sometimes, I wish I was a nurse.
- But I know that I could never be a nurse now!
- Blood & weird medical procedures gross me out.
- I have a tendency to start things and not finish.
- I love to dress up because I wear casual clothes 5 1/2 days a week.
- I would love to go to the White Sox training camp in AZ.
- Every year, I follow the Sox a little more.
- No matter how prim and proper I seem, I'm really a country girl at heart.
- I dislike being rushed (different from being busy).
- I wish I was more creative.
- I am frequently late in turning in library books...hence, many late fines.
- I've been to the UK.
- I've been to the Caribbean.
- I've climbed (really hiked) Pikes Peak.
- I've hiked the Grand Canyon.
- I've been white-water rafting.
- I've been to Mexico.
- I've been to Canada.
- I would prefer to travel the U.S. before I travel internationally.
- Every summer as a kid, we went to AL to visit my maternal grandparents.
- Those are some of my happiest memories.
- I wish I payed more attention in college.
- My college graduation day was one of the happiest days of my life.
- Bring on the road trips...I love them!
- I'm the teacher for the 1st-3rd grade girls class for the midweek service at our church.
- I love that class!
- I wish I talked slower.
- I've had the same Bible since HS and cannot think of replacing it.
- As a little girl, I sort of made up mind that I would never get my name imprinted on my Bible until after I was married.
- Now, I think it would be great to get my name imprinted on my Bible even though I'm not married. :) Funny how our opinions change!
- My initials spell r-a-g.
- I love to play VB.
- I love to sing in the car.
- My coach started to teach me overhand serves when I was a junior (in HS) but I could never get the hang of it.
- I love DD coffee over St*rbucks any day!
- I do not have a perfect underhand now!
- My secret: I cannot place a serve...no matter how hard I try!
- Our girls' intramural team was undefeated my senior year in HS.
- I was the girl in 8th grade Home-Ec that could not tie a knot.
- I don't like to play basketball.
- I got hit in the head with a softball at a college activity and needed stitches.
- I haven't played softball since.
- I love to swim.
- I would love to live on a boat...not a houseboat and not a huge yacht...just a cute little boat that can cruise around wherever.
- I love the snow.
- I dislike the cold.
- I like to recycle.
- I'm sort of crunchy-green organic...SORT OF...not weird and not completely. (Post edit: meaning, I prefer homemade food, beef from organic-fed cows, eggs from a farm, etc...)
- I was a sprinter in HS.
- I eat chocolate chips straight out of the as a snack.
- As much as I played sports in HS, I rarely do organized exercise now.
- I think being an active person is the best form of exercise.
- My favorite fiction book to read is When Crickets Cry.
- My favorite author is Elisabeth Elliot.
- I've never gotten a speeding ticket.
- But I do have myself pegged for getting a speeding ticket one day in a few choice spots (eeekkkk....).
- My dad had me absolutely terrified of getting a speeding ticket when I first started driving.
- I am just now getting over that fear because I realize that I will pay the fine (and the larger fine at that) to keep it off my record.
- I started driving at 16.
- When I first started driving and got behind the wheel, I would laugh hysterically. Partly from nerves and excitement and partly because my brothers made me laugh!
- This list took me a while to make.
- I think this list is too long.
counting my endless gifts {119-126}
119. finding extra contacts that I thought I had misplaced
120. straight corners of a cornfield
{This may seem funny but think about it...God has created everything with order, nothing is abstract. I don't think Christians should appreciate abstract art. I was driving out in the country this week and noticed this particular cornfield and the rows were so straight. It struck me as beautiful.}121. being able to help buy a food basket for our church's food fundraiser
{This is one of the reasons I was so blessed on Friday. Anytime you're down & out, do something for someone else. I guarantee your attitude will change. I wasn't down & out on Friday but I had so much fun purchasing a basket for the teen's food fundraiser this week. It was an absolute blast!}122. God's provision
123. deals and coupons on necessities
124. awesome opportunities
125. God always takes care of me!
{The less money I make, the more I see God provide. The more I give up, the more He provides. Every.single.time.! Awesome!}126. correction and conviction from the Word of God
Sunday, November 15, 2009
bliss!
Thanks to my 10% membership discount + a special 25% off coupon, I bought this book on a great deal!
I have been interested in embroidery but hadn't taken the time to find a book.
This book is right up my alley. It's easy to understand; the author has a sense of humor; there is a nice amount of photographs (instead of sketches); it doesn't make embroidery/stitiching look intimidating; and, the patterns are cute.
Does anyone else do embroidery or stitch?
PS - multitude monday coming tomorrow & I cannot wait...it's been a blessed week!
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Today is...
I was a sophmore in college.
It was the last day of the youth conference at our church.
I hadn't been under deep conviction before the sermon.
But the Holy Spirit definitely drew me to Christ that day.
It was the first time that I could not raise my hand to testify that I was saved.
I could not remain in my seat when the pastor asked for the unsaved to come forward.
It's humanly inexplicable. However, I'm so thankful that God saw fit to include me in His family. I had rejected Him for years because I had grown up in a Christian home and heard the Gospel countless times.
PRAISE GOD FOR SALVATION!
Through the difficult time I had spiritually at the end of the summer, my faith was shaken to the core. But as I dug into God's Word, my faith increased. This summer, I've become more aware of what Christ has done for me. I have become more aware of my sinful condition. I have become more aware of my daily need for Him. What would I have done this summer if it hadn't been for Christ? I'm so thankful for my salvation!
Thursday, November 12, 2009
the simple woman's daybook
This is me and Liz...the week of our graduation (me from college, her from HS), we're both wearing our striped shirts, we both have long hair...this picture is inspiration for me to continue growing my hair out...she is getting married in July and I'm in her wedding! Time flies!
Credit goes here: The Simple Woman's Daybook
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
me and awesome Mrs. E!
I can just feel it.
The sun is shining.
These pictures were taken Monday night of me and Mrs. Eeeeee at the youth activity at our church for the "Renaissance Fair."
Doesn't she look awesome? I'm still lovin' the hair!
Monday, November 9, 2009
counting my endless gifts {109-118)
109. a few days off work
110. fun with friends
111. a warm weekend
112. {once again} cello lessons...this week she took me 15 minutes over my lesson time...wow!
113. getting to help with the youth conference at church {even though it's just a little bit}
114. my favorite kids who ride the bus were able to come Sunday...they've been sporadic throughout the fall because of football
115. my brother is home from Africa
116. friendliness and comradeship between single girls
117. finding a Renaissance outfit at 75% off
118. being able to fix the outfit without sewing or buying anything extra
{So this is huge...my typical solution when I want to fix something is to throw $$ at the problem. I had to buy a cape to go over the Renaissance dress and the cape seemed too long and black and the dress needed a sash. I had planned to run to the fabric store and pick up a few things which ='s money. This morning, my Mom and I cut off the desired amount of fabric which made the cape not so long; it didn't need to be hemmed because of the type of material. The extra material will be used for a sash. Thus, reinforcing what I'm trying to improve on....frugality.}
Sunday, November 8, 2009
It was absolutely, gorgeous today. The skies were a beautiful blue with white, swirly clouds.
If you have read my blog for a while, you may remember that our route is way out in the country {love it}. So, I'm driving our farthest out kids home and the brother is sitting in the front seat {that's still a big deal to kids, same as it was when I was a kid} and he pointed out the clouds to me.
Isaac: Miss Becca, the clouds are so pretty. {said with a slight, cute lisp on the "r"}
me: Yes, they are.
Isaac: They're all swirly. {more awe expressed about the clouds}
me: Yes, they're very pretty today.
Isaac: It's like God is up in Heaven swirling the clouds. It's like He is in art class.
Kids are so innocent and forthcoming! It made me laugh. I'm sure God smiled at that one, too.
Just a warning, I'm not going to promise very many posts this week. The youth conference at our church is starting tomorrow. {Wish you were here, Anne!} I get to help out for the opening activity tomorrow night. It's a Renaissance (medieval) theme. AND, there were Renaissance dresses on the H*llow**n clearance rack at a store in town. Wonderful! Plus with work sprinkled in, helping out in the kitchen at church, and picking up a girl from our route so she can attend the service, I might not post as much as I would like. Hope ya'll have a fabulous week, too!
Saturday, November 7, 2009
yay! bus game!
One person at a time will have a chance to pull a match (by points & color) out of the bucket. If they get a match, they'll be awarded points. Then, if they can correctly answer a Bible question, they'll get double the points on the acorn that they drew.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
my week!
I had Monday off of work. (!) I had Tuesday off of work. (!) And I took Wednesday off of work. (!)
Monday: I just did things around the house. I'm never bored when I have a day off. Never, ever bored. I went to see my Granny. I went to a friend's house and watched an old movie.
Tuesday: Hung out at home in the morning. Picked up my Mom from the airport then we went shopping. I bought some cute-o things. And let me say that almost every single thing was a need. Seriously. I know that seems hard to believe but it's true.
Wednesday: I went with a friend and her daughter and her friends downtown Chicago for the day. It was so.much.fun.!! The girls were so pleasant to be with. I had a blast! We ended the day with popcorn from a specialty popcorn shop. I have one word: delish!
Today: I'm working. Woohoo!
Friday: You already know about my Friday {see post below}!!
How has your week been?
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
on being single
On Friday night, my parents and I were chatting and weddings was one of the topics. I commented that if I ever get married, I have determined that my wedding will be focused on two things: family and thankfulness. Because I will be adding family {my husband's} and he will be adding family {mine}. And family is really important to me. The second thing I would like to focus on is thankfulness. Thankfulness to my church family and my parents for investing in my life. And most importantly, thankfulness to God. I was being funny when I said, "For sure, we will be praising the Lord because at that point, it will be an absolute miracle if I ever get married. It will just be a service filled with PRAISE that I am FINALLY getting married!" I told the girl I visit with on Saturday that it will be a regular day of Thanksgiving in the middle of the year if I get married. Maybe everyone should come dressed as Pilgrims? Haha....JOKING...of course!
Now here's a more serious part.
I have had a discussion with another single friend about praying & singleness and she understood what I was getting at. I have had this same discussion with my Mom and she has encouraged, prompted me to pray more because that is what I need to do.
So when I pray diligently about being single and getting married, I never ask the Lord for an answer to my prayer within a time table. If the prayer doesn't get answered does that mean the Lord doesn't answer prayer? Of course not! I believe that He answers three ways: yes, no, wait. But I must admit that I don't have enough faith to pray within a specific time table. So I pray, "...help thou mine unbelief." {Mark 9:24...I know the sentence before it is Lord, I believe.} Anyways, when I pray more about getting married, the guy finding me, etc...I feel like I get more anxious. This is supposed to happen and quickly because I am praying more diligently! So when no magical guy appears, I quickly become discouraged and not content with my singleness. Focus on the key words: not content. And let me say that life is so much easier, joyful when I'm content.
So I jump ship. I quit praying. Sinful, shallow me! But, I'm content, I argue!
THEN. Last week in my devotions, I read this portion of Scripture:
"...Open thy mouth wide, and I will fill it.
But my people would not hearken to my voice; and Israel would none of me.
...And they walked in their own counsels.
Oh {love that word in the Bible; shows such emotion!} that my people had hearkened unto me, and Israel had walked in my ways!
He should have fed them also with the finest of the wheat: and with honey out of the rock should I have satisfied thee."
That was a major jolt for me! That is not the entire portion of Scripture in Psalm 81: 10-16 but I included what was a blessing for me. My pastor has a sermon that I've heard in the past based on verse 10. Basically, God WANTS to bless me but I'm sitting here with my mouth sewn shut because I'm CONTENT. When if I open it up in PRAYER, HE wants to FILL IT! Silly, shallow me!!!! My heart's desire is to be a wife and mother. God knows this! So why not pray this with my mouth wide open. I have pictured in my mind little baby birds just hatched, squawking, their mouths w i d e open for food.
So you can guess what I'm up to now!! I'm back to praying WITH MY MOUTH OPEN!
Monday, November 2, 2009
FRIday
Here's why:
#1 - I'm going to an indexing conference {that I thought was in September/October...and it's in November - lucky me!} Do you remember a while back that I explained about a new career opportunity that I was looking into? Oh yes, here's the post. So I'm going. I'm a little nervous because it's not like there are an abundance of indexers in the United States. I know there won't be 500 people at the conference and I can melt into the crowd. No. I am going as the novice not-even-an-indexer. I'm going strictly for informational purposes. To find out more of this stunningly attractive, boring, helpful, interesting career.
#2 - My brother will be home from his 4 1/2 week missions trip to Africa. Actually, he was in Africa for about 4 weeks; the 1/2 week was travel time. We really haven't heard a lot from him so there will be many stories to hear.
#3 - My friend will be back. She has been gone for two weeks and I so miss chatting with her!! Yay! I heart her.